Let's dive into
this stuff right now!
If you want
to get the Sexual Perception, you need to do just two things:
1. Send
Strong "lust-generating" Signals (achieved by your words,
actions, reactions, etc) She needs to get certain messages from you.
And each individual message is an ingredient for cooking up a powerful
recipe that you are someone she wants sexually. It is the recipe that
you are Sexually Desirable.
2. Direct her Mind State - She needs to feel a
certain way. If she thinks you are Sexually Desirable, but she doesn't
feel a Certain Way at the right time, then she will not be motivated
enough to allow anything to happen. You must discover how to sexually
inspire her. It really comes down
to every word you say (and what that means to her) and how you respond
to her (and what that means to her) and how you act around her (and
what that means to her) and how you stand out (and what that means to
her).
That's the basics.
Remember those two things.
If your sex
life is suffering, then chances are your partner doesn't have a strong
sexual perception of you. Trying to brainwash yourself into thinking it
is something else [(1) she just has a low
libido (2) she is getting older (3) her hormones hasn't
kicked in yet (4) any very convincing excuse] will preserve your ego.
But...
It WILL NOT
solve your existing problem. The fact will still remain that she will
not have the Needed & Special Perception that makes her more open
to sexual activities.
Being in denial protects your precious ego, but it does not address the
real problem.
Remember she
is a female designed to crave sex when stimulated a Certain Way. She
can get intensely horny even on the lowest peak of her monthly libido
cycle!
Fact:
Men
get intensely stimulated by how a woman looks.
Fact: Women get intensely stimulated by how a man
makes her feel & and how she feels about him.
There are
too many silly techniques out there that focus on specific scripts or
pick up lines - Yes even in 2005.
You need to know the psychology behind the whole process - the reason
why.
Here's
an analogy.
If you live in New York
and you want to go to Los Angeles - Would you focus on getting a Red
Mercedes Benz, because with it you can drive to LA?
Or would you
focus on getting transportation?
Hopefully
you realize that focusing on transportation allows for more (or
infinite) possibilities...
A Red Mercedes Benz
may be cool, but chances are there are more effective ways of getting
there. And those ways may be cheaper, quicker, more fun, etc.
I've seen guys
(thinly disguises as seduction experts) actually instructing guys to
tell women specific scripts. That is the foundation of their
instructions.
How insane is
that?
That
is no different than trying to get to LA from NY by focusing only
on trying to use a Red Mercedes Benz as the transportation method.
