Like I said before, there's nothing more important to a successful
relationship than the ability to communicate well with each other.
Unfortunately, most guys have no idea how to talk with their lady, and
they end up being single over and over again. Here's something
important to remember about talking with girls that you're interested
in.
If you find yourself not sure what to talk about with a girl, you
can do what's called "listening for topics". It's really easy to
do this, once you know how.
If you're on a date with a girl, and you are bored of talking about the
latest movies, what kind of music she likes, etc... what do you do
next? What do you talk about?
Well that's what I'm here to teach you. Listening for topics is a
powerful solution to this problem, and it's so easy to do.
Let's say for example, she's telling you about her day, and she
mentions that she bought flower bulbs for her garden. Well, normally
you might just nod your head and say "uh huh, yep"... but no no no...
you can use that to move into a fun conversation.
Plus, she'll feel really good about talking to you in the future.
Let me explain. To you, her garden might not mean anything, but if she
mentioned it in conversation, it's obviously important to her. So you
could say, "Oh, you have a garden? Could you tell me about it?". Well,
don't you think she's going to jump at the chance?
She'll actually think you're more interesting, because you were
interested in HER garden. Remember that people who are the most
interesting, are usually the ones who are most interested (in the other
person).
Try it out the next time you're talking to someone. While they are
talking to you, actively listen for them to mention something out
of the ordinary about themselves, or about how their day went.
Then, go ahead and ask them about it. This will open them up, and make
them want to talk to you more. And it will also make them appreciate
you so much more, because you were actually listening to what
they had to say (so much so that you asked them for more information).
What woman could resist that? By the way, I've discovered some really
excellent ways to talk to girls that will drive them CRAZY about you.
Would you like to learn what to talk about in the first 60 seconds to
guarantee that she'll want to get to know you?
Go ahead and check out my book "Dating Breakthrough". It contains my
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Warmly,
Wayne Ross
Author: Seven Magic Words & Dating Breakthrough
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