There is a lot more happening when she rejects you for sex.
Do you have any idea what is really happening when she turns
you down for sex?
And what I mean is what
is happening when the woman you love turns you down for sex
consistently - night after night. So let's say you are looking at your
lovely lady and the thought enters your head:
"She's looking good. I
want to have sex with her." This has happening plenty of times.
But when you go to
approach her sex (most of the time), she gives you some BS excuse
explaining why she doesn't want you. By the way, women aren't even
using the "I gotta headache" excuse anymore. That's too popular and
well known. Her rejections have evolved.
They are more clever.
They are more intelligent.
They are more convincing.
There is a lot more
happening than you can imagine.
Here is the simple part
(and then we'll get to the Secret Info in a second):
The simple part is that you know she is lying. Does that help the
situation? Deep down inside you know that she doesn't want sex and she
is trying to figure out a way to get out of it. And after
she tells you "NO, I don't want sex from you" you end up thinking:
"Why doesn't she want
to have sex with me?"
Then it will be clear:
"She doesn't want to
have sex with me."
But you do have the real
reasons. You don't have a clue what's really going on.
And then you will get
confused, frustrated and angry. This has happened plenty of
times. And the anger and confusion doesn't go away easily. And it will
keep happening over and over and over again.
By the way, some women
will even give you a Long Term Rejection. This is not good.
This is a rejection that not only tells you that you won't be getting
any that night, but it let's you know that you won't be getting
any for the next couple of nights, too. And she'll go through great
effort to make you think this excuse is real.
Earlier you were told
that if you don't end the rejections, they will get worse. And this is
something that I just decided to make up. And you better learn this
Secret Info right now, because no one is talking about it and it seems
as though no one even knows it exists - not even the well respected
experts!
So in your mind, you think she is not in the mood or she is mad at you
or she is trying to punish you or whatever.
The main message that is
clear in head as you suffer rejection after rejection:
She doesn't want to have
sex with.
I got news for you:
It's much worse than this
And I'm going to tell you
exactly why.
But before I do, isn't it
obvious what is happening?
Guess what? You are not
alone. This happens to millions and millions of men. And it is
happening to some man right now. Just as you read this a baby boy was
born and it will happen to him when he gets older.
Imagine being in a very
large dark empty room with four doors on each wall. You are in the
middle of the room on your knees and everything is pitch-black. As you
crawl to one of the doors, you go through and notice that you are in an
identical room except the lights are on. But seconds later, the lights
go out, so you begin to crawl to another door. The lights are on and
then they go out. The same thing keeps happening over and over again.
Wouldn't you agree that
that would be a cycle?
Here is the deal: You are
suffering repeated rejections, so you are in a cycle.
You are in a Cycle of
Rejections.
And every time you do
eventually have sex with her, that is the same as the light that stays
on for a few seconds. Eventually the light will go out.
If you don't get out of
this cycle, it will get worse and I'm going to tell you why in a second.
Once you understand what
is really happening when you get rejected, you will know exactly why
these rejections will get worse. The confusion will end.
Here's a hint: She
doesn't even know what is really happening.
In fact, she may even get
confused explaining to you why she doesn't want to have sex with you.
She may give you one
reason one day. And then a totally different reason another day.
And do you know what
would happens if you took out a stack of relationship books that would
were stacked as high as your knees and read them all? Do you know what
would happen?
You would waste your time!
You would learn some
valuable information.
But overall you would
waste your time.
They would cover
everything BUT the Secret Info.
One day I obsessed over
whether they just didn't know about this discovery or they knew but
just wasn't telling (helping guys out). I've never been into
conspiracies, but if they gave you the Secret Info chances are you
wouldn't have to keep coming back to them.
But what difference does
it make?
I will tell you this:
You are not alone.
Millions of guys are suffering just like you are. Millions of guys are
in the dark room maze. Millions of guys do not know what the hell
is going on.
When I say It's worse
than you think, I'm not just flapping off at the mouth.
This is what goes on.
This is 100% real.
This problem leads to
divorce, cheating, and deception. This problem affects innocent kids
who grow up with their parents getting along.
Don't ever think for as a
second a child doesn't know what is going on.
Before I explain to you
why the rejections are going to get worse...
And before I let you in
on the Secret Info that the "so called" experts are not talking about.
I will tell you that millions of men are getting hot sex from the women
they love consistently.
So by doing simple math,
you know that there are two groups of men.
When I was working in
sales, my co-worker Eddie did some unusual things. I remember one day
this Asian woman in a business suit came in the store and he asked me
what did I think of her. I said she's a knockout. And I wasn't lying to
him, she was super sexy! That was an understatement. By the way, this
is a true story.
He said "watch this" he
walked up to her and gave her this weird glaze and then started kissing
her very passionately. Obviously, I was mind-blown! Obviously my head
was spinning. After they finally stopped kissing, he looked back at me
as if to say "that's how you do it!"
Noticing that my jaw had
just hit the floor, he busted out laughing and said let me introduce
you to my wife?
And then they both
started laughing. She was businesswomen of some sort and she had
stopped by so that they could go to lunch together.
At the time, Eddie was a
new guy but I felt like I known him for awhile. He was a nice guy that
was really fun to be around. Here is where things get impressive:
And I have told this
story to all of my friends.
This is what he told me
about his relationship.
His intelligent, super
hot wife makes 3 times the money he was making!
I'm not done.
Every day when he gets
home from work, his super sexy wife greets him at the door with a
mind-shattering blow job. It gets better. She then baths him and
massages his feet and cooks him an awesome dinner. And later on in the
evening they end up having steamy sex.
I'm not even going to get
into the costume collection that his wife has!
By the way - He
was one of the happiest guys I ever met!
Instead of being in a
maze of dark endless rooms, Eddie is running through an open field of
green fresh grass on a sunny day. Wouldn't you a agree.
I hope I've made it
impossible to not to see the difference between guys like Eddie and
guys who get rejected over and over again.
Here is the deal.
The math is very simple.
There are two groups of guys.
The open field green
grass guys: Guys in relationships that are happy with their sex
life.
The dark endless room
guys: Guys in relationships that are not
happy with their sex life.
The Secret Info points
you in the right direction. There is an efficient path you can follow.
There is a magic door that leads to the open field. (That is an analogy)
The fact that you
have read this far, means that you are already on the right path!
Do you know what a "harsh
reality" is?
A harsh reality
is one of those things things that you say that is so harsh but true,
that when you say people will often look at you as the bad guy.
By the way, I have found
the best way to educate and to inspire a person is through harsh
realities - it forces you to increase your level of awareness.
Here is a harsh reality. Some
men that are in the dark endless room group will go their entire
life without ever learning this Secret Information!
The Secret Info is important because it allows you to get out of the
dark room and into the open grassy field.
It is important that you
see the clear difference between the two groups of men. If you do not
see the difference, then re-read everything again until you get to back
to This Point.
This Point!
After
This Point we are going to start getting into some heavy stuff, so if
you need a 5 minute break take it now and then come back extremely
tuned in to every word.
Now take a deep breath
and relax.
Because even though I am
about to reveal why the rejections will get worse, it is important to
know that you can change all of this. You can become happy with your
sex life.
If you decide you want to end the rejections, here is the good news. It
is possible. You must believe that it is possible. One of things you
are going to hear me talk about in exhausting detail is the importance
of believing it is possible.
I know guys that think it is impossible to
ever change their situation. These guys have no hope, because of this.
Remember there have been plenty of poor
people that have become rich. So you must believe that it is possible
to go from one extreme to the next.
You have already traveling down the right
path if you have made it this far. There will be guys that won't
believe there is hope.
I can not do anything about this.
If you are seriously ready to get out of the rejection
cycle then, I urge you to take action and starting reading this report.
In Super Sex Power: Magnetism
(the 160 page book that is the evolved version of the 3 page Rejection
Report), you will discover how to get out of the Rejection Cycle, when
you get to that section, I URGE you to slow down and really absorb that
section.
You may think it is silly, but it works.
As far as the Secret Info, it comes down to
sexual value.
STEP 2: Increase Your Sexual Value.
If you are ready to end the rejections, then
I recommend you read Super Sex Power: Magnetism.
It is impossible for most psychologists to
provide you with this Secret Info, because they have not had the
experiences that lead to the discover. Keep this in mind - some of the
stuff they say is valuable on a certain level, but the part that really
matters to you they are not talking about.
The bottom line is you need her to be
magnetized to you.
You need sexual value.
The reason the rejections will get worse is
because she is developing a habit (through repetition_ of rejecting you
for sex. In case that doesn't make sense, then what if I told you that you
are training her unconscious mind to reject you.
That means deep down inside she will "feel"
as though you are repulsive (the opposition of magnetism). That means
deep down inside she will find you repulsive.
This may take awhile to really sink in.
With each rejection you will lose
sexual value.
What does that mean?
It means she is going to reject you more,
because you are going to obsess over how you should approach her.
Before I continue let's go over what the
average guy does when he keeps getting rejected. See if you can figure
out why his logic is completely wrong.
Mistake #1:
Trying to learn to be an awesome lover. Here is why the thinking is
flawed. The guy thinks if he puts on a world class performance she will
want it all the time. It doesn't matter how good you are in bed if you
are a lousy sexual salesmen she will not buy it. There is a such thing
as poor salesmanship. A poor salesman couldn't sell hundred dollar
bills for a 50 cents. Trust me, I've seen poor salesman in action. And
many cases they will talk them selves out of the sale. They end up
convincing the person not to buy. Keep this in mind: SEX is the product
and SEDUCTION (or the word I like to use is SEXUALLY INSPIRE) is the
process of selling the product. I'll give you another example. I could
be thinking about eating a bacon cheeseburger from a certain fast food
restaurant. I know it tastes great because I had it before, but I'm not
inspired to eat it. But when I see the commercial (which seduces me), I
suddenly have a strong urge to have it - and as a result I will hop in
my car and drive out there to get it. So it wouldn't matter too much if
they kept trying to make the burger better and better and better. So
that is the mistake that some guys make. They try to improve the
product (i.e sex or the burger), but NOT the more important selling
process.
Mistake #2: Focusing
on how you should approach her. Here is why the thinking is flawed. The
guy thinks that he has to approach her a certain way and then then she
will accept him. He is partially right. But the fact he focuses his
mental energy on figuring out what the approach is instead of working
on increasing his sexual value makes him completely wrong. If you have
little sexual value it doesn't matter how you approach her.
That's like saying what would an 900lb women have to do to get you in
the mood? If she has no sexual to you, then the answer is nothing.
Imagine if you saw her obsessing over how to approach you for sex. That
is actually the perfect analogy because guys are more physically turned
on and women are turned on psychologically turned on. Wouldn't you
agree that in order for her to increase her sexual value she would has
to change in some way. (i.e lose weight or something).
Mistake #3:
Trying to give her pills/herbs to make her horny. Here is why the
thinking is flawed. If you have no sexual value then it doesn't matter
if the pills succeed in getting her horny. This actually work against
in some cases. Here's the deal, if she gets horny and you have no
sexual value, then she would rather masturbate than to have sex with
you. And the reason why it could work against you over the long run is
because if she is always in a horny state then the guys that have
sexual value in her eyes are the ones that are going to be more
appealing - over time. Does that make sense? Let's say we lived in a
world where a pig could talk and interact with you, but they still had
the sexual value of a regular pig. Let's say this pig gave you
(secretly or non-secretly) 2 pills of HERBAL-X ROCK HARD. These pills
had 90000mg of Yohimbe and 90000mg of Ginseng, and etc...in seconds you
up in the air (approx 5 degrees away from your belly) would you screw
the pig if you became super aroused? The answer is no. (ok) The pig has
no sexual value. So in order for you to screw the pig, it would have to
increase his sexual value. It would have to maybe put on some fishnet
stockings or something.
Let's move on.
Mistake #4:
Asking her to explain why she is not in the mood? Here is why the
thinking is flawed. She doesn't know. She knows what she is consciously
attracted to (i.e the nice guy that does nice things) but she doesn't
know what she is unconsciously attracted to. She doesn't know what
moves her on a deep down level. Here's an example. If you asked a
person that just gave up on diet why he is no longer on the diet, he is
not going to give the real (deep down) answer. However, he will give
you the false (surface) answer and he may believe this is the truth but
it's not the truth. It's false. His surface answer will be the diet
failed, or that was a dumb diet - something like that. But the real
(deep down) reason is because he may have never believed he could
succeed in the first place. He may have had no hope. He may have to
increase his will-power. He may not have been serious about solving his
problem.
But why is it worse than I thought?
Oh that wasn't enough! Well here you go - if
you are not doing the things to increase your sexual value then it is
rapidly decreasing and I'll explain why?
Imagine being on a date with a 900lb women.
She has no sexual value but she is a nice girl who is fun to be around.
But all of the sudden she goes into "I want sex from you" mode. And you
are thinking "oh no" I got to come up with an excuse. The whole time
you are thinking I gotta get out of here! She is no longer fun. But
imagine being around her even more as she pursues you. Would you get
angrier as time went on? Isn't this bad tension? Isn't this stress?
Isn't this not relaxing? Wouldn't it be much more relaxing to be around
someone that was fun, since she is no longer fun. Wouldn't you just
naturally move towards someone that was more fun to be around? Wouldn't
the new fun person, appear to be even more fun, the more the 900lb
woman stressed you out?
Are you aware of the point to all of this.
If you have no sexual value, you are
advertising and making other guys more appealing as time goes on.
This is a harsh reality.
I hope you enjoyed the report. If you want
to learn the Secret Info about increasing your sexual value, then I
recommend you read
Super
Sex Power: Magnetism.