Coffee House
Possibilities
by
Devlyn Steele
When you're single you're always imagining
meeting that right person. Come on admit it, we all have our fantasies.
We also incorporate our fantasies into our daily lives and imagine
meeting that person who gets our heart racing and our palms sweaty at
the places we go. At work, we think about it. At the gym, we think
about it. While driving, we're thinking about it. We think about it a
lot!
Certainly while sitting at your local coffee
shop you might look up, see someone coming in and wonder and hope. We
hope for that coffee house possibility of meeting that right person.
Why not? It could happen and often does! Since you aren't the only one
thinking about it, chances are that person walking in is hoping for the
same thing you are.
Here's a good way of increasing your
possibilities. Try spending time at the same coffee shop and go at the
same time every time. Most people follow routines and by following one
yourself you'll likely come across the same people regularly.
Regularity creates familiarity which establishes a sense of comfort
that allows two people to ease into conversation.
Try not just picking up your coffee to go.
There is little possibility of meeting the right person while sipping
your mocha café latté on the road. In fact, if you take a
hot sip while driving, you could end up with a very different
possibility- an accident. So just hang out and enjoy a refill.
Eventually you may spot that certain someone
who causes your heart to have a little arrhythmia. As nervous as you
might be at that moment, don't freeze up. Give a friendly smile. Take a
chance and even say, "Hello". You never know unless you try. If nothing
comes of it, that's alright. The great thing about the coffee house is
people are always walking in. There are endless coffee house
possibilities!
So sit back, relax and enjoy. There is no
need to rush when the coffee is good and that next customer walking in
could end up being the special person you're looking for. Anything is
possible at the coffee house!
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